tale of every girl *sigh*

Saturday, September 10, 2011
























every girl needs her love story. thats the plain truth. no matter how hard they try to deny it, no matter what she looks like on the exterior, somewhere inside her is that little girl who has grown up thinking about a love story one day. blame it on the romantic love stories we have grown up watching. i remember feeling goosebumps when i saw raj fighting for simran on that station and i was five then! ever since then, there has been on thing or the other. and as if the movies werent enough, there are romantic novels that have love stories of ever lasting love. and you cant really blame me for that. there is a girl out there who finds a random bottle on beach and ends up with a guy who loves her crazily. sure, he dies eventually but she does spend some time being loved like sunshine! there is even one sending her letters from the dead! sure you can switch the tv off and shut down the book and dump it far end corner of your drawer and then, your friends walk in with their tales of being swooned by someone! what is a girl supposed to do then? there is nothing better and worse than a real life full on love story and someone like me who hears at least five of them daily in different stages, life is not that easy.
and just when i thought i was the only one left all alone in this big bad world, i realized something. now i know that at end of the day, in every girl lies that hope that someday she will find a guy who will love her for what she is. true? i dunno. i am still to find that out but i am just amazed at it. i had thought i had snubbed that little girl me into a little nook somewhere, never to emerge again. or maybe she had just left. but i realized she didnt. she was here, all the time. and so is she inside every woman out there. every girl is looking for her love story if she hasnt found one yet. no matter how, no matter where, the sense of being the one thought about, being cared and loved and most importantly being important is what every girl wishes for and certainly deserves. does every girl find it? i wish i could say yes. does any girl ever give up the hope? hell no!!! even the career oriented modern girls who dont want a man to support them do want a man to go on with them through life. the idea of a love story is different for every girl, for sure but it is there in every girl's heart.
so if you are a girl, thinking about your love story and at times frustrated with your undying hope of finding someone who will love and care for you like you mean everything to him then dont be. you are not the only one :)
and for those who have already found one, cheers!!!! 

6 cheers:

eNiGmA said...

i luved that pic ! n ur post is absolutely true :) even i had goosebumps while watching Raj n Simran, thought i ws if not much, but still a li'l older than 5.... n u knw wht, i still can watch that movie at any point of time with the same emotions... so, i totally agree that, every girl wants n deserves a tale of hers... a fairytale ;)

bliss said...

me too!!! DDLJ never fails to stir the romantic in me!! :P and as for every girl's fairy tale, like i said, most girls are frustratingly hopeful about finding one some day...
welcome to my blog :)

Dhanya said...

DDLJ is my favorite ! Yeah, it is difficult to find Raj-type guys nowadays, but I have heard that they do exist ;) I'm sure you will find your prince charming one day too...

bliss said...

@dhanya,
hahaha i am sure they do exist :P

prittimeless said...

ya girls put that kinda pic often on their profiles and in facebook albums....

but if we talk generally, and i am casually asking, if a girl is given a choice b/w a rich guy, who is not like-able to the girl, and a not-so-rich guy, who loves her, and she likes him....

what would she do....

bliss said...

@prittimeless
answer to that question would vary with every girl, wouldnt it :)
however, whatever a girl chooses, at end she should get her love story. atleast thats the hope :)

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Saturday, September 10, 2011

tale of every girl *sigh*

























every girl needs her love story. thats the plain truth. no matter how hard they try to deny it, no matter what she looks like on the exterior, somewhere inside her is that little girl who has grown up thinking about a love story one day. blame it on the romantic love stories we have grown up watching. i remember feeling goosebumps when i saw raj fighting for simran on that station and i was five then! ever since then, there has been on thing or the other. and as if the movies werent enough, there are romantic novels that have love stories of ever lasting love. and you cant really blame me for that. there is a girl out there who finds a random bottle on beach and ends up with a guy who loves her crazily. sure, he dies eventually but she does spend some time being loved like sunshine! there is even one sending her letters from the dead! sure you can switch the tv off and shut down the book and dump it far end corner of your drawer and then, your friends walk in with their tales of being swooned by someone! what is a girl supposed to do then? there is nothing better and worse than a real life full on love story and someone like me who hears at least five of them daily in different stages, life is not that easy.
and just when i thought i was the only one left all alone in this big bad world, i realized something. now i know that at end of the day, in every girl lies that hope that someday she will find a guy who will love her for what she is. true? i dunno. i am still to find that out but i am just amazed at it. i had thought i had snubbed that little girl me into a little nook somewhere, never to emerge again. or maybe she had just left. but i realized she didnt. she was here, all the time. and so is she inside every woman out there. every girl is looking for her love story if she hasnt found one yet. no matter how, no matter where, the sense of being the one thought about, being cared and loved and most importantly being important is what every girl wishes for and certainly deserves. does every girl find it? i wish i could say yes. does any girl ever give up the hope? hell no!!! even the career oriented modern girls who dont want a man to support them do want a man to go on with them through life. the idea of a love story is different for every girl, for sure but it is there in every girl's heart.
so if you are a girl, thinking about your love story and at times frustrated with your undying hope of finding someone who will love and care for you like you mean everything to him then dont be. you are not the only one :)
and for those who have already found one, cheers!!!! 

6 comments:

eNiGmA said...

i luved that pic ! n ur post is absolutely true :) even i had goosebumps while watching Raj n Simran, thought i ws if not much, but still a li'l older than 5.... n u knw wht, i still can watch that movie at any point of time with the same emotions... so, i totally agree that, every girl wants n deserves a tale of hers... a fairytale ;)

bliss said...

me too!!! DDLJ never fails to stir the romantic in me!! :P and as for every girl's fairy tale, like i said, most girls are frustratingly hopeful about finding one some day...
welcome to my blog :)

Dhanya said...

DDLJ is my favorite ! Yeah, it is difficult to find Raj-type guys nowadays, but I have heard that they do exist ;) I'm sure you will find your prince charming one day too...

bliss said...

@dhanya,
hahaha i am sure they do exist :P

prittimeless said...

ya girls put that kinda pic often on their profiles and in facebook albums....

but if we talk generally, and i am casually asking, if a girl is given a choice b/w a rich guy, who is not like-able to the girl, and a not-so-rich guy, who loves her, and she likes him....

what would she do....

bliss said...

@prittimeless
answer to that question would vary with every girl, wouldnt it :)
however, whatever a girl chooses, at end she should get her love story. atleast thats the hope :)

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