well, anyone who has read or seen HP book/movie knows about Harry's passion for his game. but he'd also know of Ron's plight of having a super famous friend as best buddy. sometimes it was cuz Harry had a reason for being so famous, but at other times, it was plain, well, umm i dont know, hype perhaps.. alright, i am not here to disect HP series. my point is that i kinda understand wat Ron wud have felt like living constantly in shadow of a friend who was, alright, better than him, but at times, didnt deserve everything he got. especially when he was trying to make it in Quiditch(see, my title had some relation with the post!! )
well, my point here is that i know wats its like living with a famous friend.. i did it in school for four long years. and now, its again the same story.. maybe i have a knack for attracting really famous people [8)]. but it has its negatives too.. you have friends who u meet after ages and they might forget to ask u how r u doing, but they sure wont forget to ask 'so wats up with her???' God, if thats how interested u were in her, shud've made an effort to keep in touch. i was on verge of putting my status 'I shall not entertain any queries about another soul. kindly look for some other source!!'
however infuriated i might sound though, surprisingly thats not the thing bugging me right now. wats bugging me is the fact that most people around us are gripped by feeling of partiality. u have had it in favour of u, u have had it against u, u have done it yourself and u have hated it a gazillion times in ur life. yet, we face it everyday. and it especially hurts when it happens somewhere u are doing well, or atleast trying your best to do u rbest. and wen u see people still liking another person cuz they know them from before, they are friends with them or worst of all, they are prettier, it boils my blood!!! thats one thing i hate in life!!! i hate partial favouritist $#%&*@#!
well, i guess, of all the things u cant change about life, this is one of them too!!! but if i cud have it my way, i wud tell all those people to get a life and look at things with wider perspective and get their issues straight!!!
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
quiditch!!
well, anyone who has read or seen HP book/movie knows about Harry's passion for his game. but he'd also know of Ron's plight of having a super famous friend as best buddy. sometimes it was cuz Harry had a reason for being so famous, but at other times, it was plain, well, umm i dont know, hype perhaps.. alright, i am not here to disect HP series. my point is that i kinda understand wat Ron wud have felt like living constantly in shadow of a friend who was, alright, better than him, but at times, didnt deserve everything he got. especially when he was trying to make it in Quiditch(see, my title had some relation with the post!! )
well, my point here is that i know wats its like living with a famous friend.. i did it in school for four long years. and now, its again the same story.. maybe i have a knack for attracting really famous people [8)]. but it has its negatives too.. you have friends who u meet after ages and they might forget to ask u how r u doing, but they sure wont forget to ask 'so wats up with her???' God, if thats how interested u were in her, shud've made an effort to keep in touch. i was on verge of putting my status 'I shall not entertain any queries about another soul. kindly look for some other source!!'
however infuriated i might sound though, surprisingly thats not the thing bugging me right now. wats bugging me is the fact that most people around us are gripped by feeling of partiality. u have had it in favour of u, u have had it against u, u have done it yourself and u have hated it a gazillion times in ur life. yet, we face it everyday. and it especially hurts when it happens somewhere u are doing well, or atleast trying your best to do u rbest. and wen u see people still liking another person cuz they know them from before, they are friends with them or worst of all, they are prettier, it boils my blood!!! thats one thing i hate in life!!! i hate partial favouritist $#%&*@#!
well, i guess, of all the things u cant change about life, this is one of them too!!! but if i cud have it my way, i wud tell all those people to get a life and look at things with wider perspective and get their issues straight!!!
10 comments:
- Blunt Edges said...
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well now u have a famous person commenting on ur blog also :D:D:D
n about the partiality thing, yeah even i have been through that...but at some point it stopped affecting me...or maybe i grew out of it...dunno which.
some mood u were in when u wrote the post! - November 5, 2009 at 1:18 AM
- HaRy!! said...
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oh the partiality...guess thats a phase every one goes thru!!..dont worry..yep second wat blunt says...crappy mood when yu wrote eh?
- November 5, 2009 at 3:11 PM
- bliss said...
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BE,
well yeah, famous people!! like i said, i had a knack for attracting them!!! :P and funnily, no i wasnt. i wasnt ina bad mood, just sth i come across all the time so i dont have to be in a particularly acid mood to think about it!!! :D and i guess, wen it stoppped bothering u, u were the one being favoured. or have u always been the famous one of all your frnds???? :O
Hary,
its more like a situation, real sticky one.. naah, the label says crappy feeling but i wasnt in one!!! just the feeling of being at a loss due to partiality is a sour one in itself!! - November 5, 2009 at 7:13 PM
- buckingfastard said...
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well yea...to put it frankly...in skool i was in my frnd grp da most famous...and it seriosly was heaven...its da attention i guess...we all r wannabe celebraties...
but now in college..its complete oppposite...nd except counted few no 1 knos my name...nd in my frnd circle i m sittin in dark under dere shadow...
it felt bad...initially...very bad...but truly..after 2 yrs or so...i kinda enjoy da coolness of da shadow...i dunt hav no performance pressure...and its better dis way..
life is partial...admit it...point is...how quickly u can adjust to dat fact if u cant change it!! - November 5, 2009 at 8:41 PM
- bliss said...
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BF,
so here it is from someone who has seen both the sides, huh? well, dunno about the coolness of things. i still have to get there. i still have to make my peace with the fact that at times u wudnt be appreciated for sth u did just as well cuz someone else got all the favours!!!!! - November 6, 2009 at 9:15 PM
- Chhaya said...
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hey bliss..
i have been on the otherside.. and trust me those so called famous people (unfortunatly i used to be one) need someone rock solid and trustworthy to fall back on. A friend who loves you without any selfish reason. Such friends are precious..
you are such a precious person!!!!
so glad to have found u..
so visit my blog when u have time..
love m wishes - November 9, 2009 at 6:40 PM
- bliss said...
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@chhaya,
so true yaaar!! i guess, such ppl do need someone strong enough to give them support!!
thanks for the kind words yaaar!!! glad to know you got second my opinion!! will definitely visit ur blog! - November 12, 2009 at 5:26 PM
- buckingfastard said...
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Hi,
U hav been awarded...no dere is no cash prize!!!...wat da heck...a chlormint maybe!!!
Pls collect ur award!! if gets stolen dunt blame us....wat da heck...blame aliens!!
buckinfastard - November 30, 2009 at 1:51 AM
- buckingfastard said...
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Hi,
U hav been awarded...no dere is no cash prize!!!...wat da heck...a chlormint maybe!!!
Pls collect ur award!! if gets stolen dunt blame us....wat da heck...blame aliens!!
buckinfastard - November 30, 2009 at 1:51 AM
- bliss said...
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oh yayee!! i won a chlormint! i dont really remember sny reason in particular that i shud get an award for. but then there is so much i do to touch ppl's ;ife all the time!!! *thumbs up* i thank BF for this prestigious award!!!
- November 30, 2009 at 5:10 PM
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well now u have a famous person commenting on ur blog also :D:D:D
n about the partiality thing, yeah even i have been through that...but at some point it stopped affecting me...or maybe i grew out of it...dunno which.
some mood u were in when u wrote the post!
oh the partiality...guess thats a phase every one goes thru!!..dont worry..yep second wat blunt says...crappy mood when yu wrote eh?
BE,
well yeah, famous people!! like i said, i had a knack for attracting them!!! :P and funnily, no i wasnt. i wasnt ina bad mood, just sth i come across all the time so i dont have to be in a particularly acid mood to think about it!!! :D and i guess, wen it stoppped bothering u, u were the one being favoured. or have u always been the famous one of all your frnds???? :O
Hary,
its more like a situation, real sticky one.. naah, the label says crappy feeling but i wasnt in one!!! just the feeling of being at a loss due to partiality is a sour one in itself!!
well yea...to put it frankly...in skool i was in my frnd grp da most famous...and it seriosly was heaven...its da attention i guess...we all r wannabe celebraties...
but now in college..its complete oppposite...nd except counted few no 1 knos my name...nd in my frnd circle i m sittin in dark under dere shadow...
it felt bad...initially...very bad...but truly..after 2 yrs or so...i kinda enjoy da coolness of da shadow...i dunt hav no performance pressure...and its better dis way..
life is partial...admit it...point is...how quickly u can adjust to dat fact if u cant change it!!
BF,
so here it is from someone who has seen both the sides, huh? well, dunno about the coolness of things. i still have to get there. i still have to make my peace with the fact that at times u wudnt be appreciated for sth u did just as well cuz someone else got all the favours!!!!!
hey bliss..
i have been on the otherside.. and trust me those so called famous people (unfortunatly i used to be one) need someone rock solid and trustworthy to fall back on. A friend who loves you without any selfish reason. Such friends are precious..
you are such a precious person!!!!
so glad to have found u..
so visit my blog when u have time..
love m wishes
@chhaya,
so true yaaar!! i guess, such ppl do need someone strong enough to give them support!!
thanks for the kind words yaaar!!! glad to know you got second my opinion!! will definitely visit ur blog!
Hi,
U hav been awarded...no dere is no cash prize!!!...wat da heck...a chlormint maybe!!!
Pls collect ur award!! if gets stolen dunt blame us....wat da heck...blame aliens!!
buckinfastard
Hi,
U hav been awarded...no dere is no cash prize!!!...wat da heck...a chlormint maybe!!!
Pls collect ur award!! if gets stolen dunt blame us....wat da heck...blame aliens!!
buckinfastard
oh yayee!! i won a chlormint! i dont really remember sny reason in particular that i shud get an award for. but then there is so much i do to touch ppl's ;ife all the time!!! *thumbs up* i thank BF for this prestigious award!!!
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